People often struggle with overwhelming feelings of grief, loss, and guilt after choosing to put their pets to sleep.
No. One of the most common questions that pet owners have when they consider the option of putting their pet to sleep is, “Will my pet suffer?” It's an understandable question, as most of us assume that death in any form is painful. The truth is that euthanasia is painless for animals.
Guilt is often a normal emotion to feel when we have to make a tough decision though, especially if we aren't sure it is the right one. It's hard to make a life or death decision and not question whether or not we could have done something else to prevent the loss of our pet.
However, the loss of that companion can be devastating and traumatic. Humans develop a lasting attachment with their pets, which breaks at the loss of the pet. Regardless of the manner of death, a pet owner may perceive the death as traumatic and experience distress or exhibit posttraumatic stress symptoms.
Your vet will always make sure your pet isn't scared, nervous, or unsettled during euthanasia by using as much sedative medication as is necessary to help them relax. Euthanasia is as humane as any medical procedure available to pets today.
The loss of a dog is so painful because people are losing a little life that we were responsible for as well as a source of unconditional love and companionship. There's a reason that most emotional support animals are dogs.
Psychologist Julie Axelrod has pointed out that the loss of a dog is so painful because owners aren't just losing the pet. It could mean the loss of a source of unconditional love, a primary companion who provides security and comfort, and maybe even a protégé that's been mentored like a child.
Your dog will hardly know what happened and will simply start to feel pleasantly drowsy. You will notice that I said “Your vet will hopefully prepare an anaesthetic or sedative injection for your dog”. Some do not. Having seen it done both ways, the “two injection” method is definitely my preference.
Sadly, dogs have much shorter lives than us. When illness, injury or old age causes untreatable pain that affects their quality of life, we need to start thinking about saying goodbye to them. Euthanasia, or putting your dog to sleep, is sometimes the only way to ease a pet's pain and suffering.
The heart and lungs will stop functioning within minutes after injecting the euthanasia solution, so dogs generally won't feel pain because they are unconscious. They may react to the procedure by having muscle spasms or crying out due to underlying sickness, yet the whole process is quick, simple, and painless.
Answer: Fortunately for us, dogs do not understand they are going to be put down and what happens after they are given the injection that puts them to sleep.
But does your dog understand the depth of love you have for him or her? According to Dr. Brian Hare, a canine cognition specialist, our dogs do know we love them. Dogs and humans have the ability to form a special neural connection.
Research suggests that when people are in anguish over the loss of a pet, disenfranchised grief makes it more difficult for them to find solace, post-traumatic growth, and healing. Disenfranchised grief seems to restrain emotional expression in a way that makes it harder to process.
The study suggests that many people experience significant attachment to their pets/animals and experience significant features of grief reactions (about 20%) after the death of a pet/animal. However, the percentage of people experiencing major pathological disruption is relatively low (<5%-12%).
Many psychologists agree that losing a cherished pet is comparable, or for some people, worse, than losing a loved one. People who lose a pet might be shocked at their grief, and may not understand why it's so intense.
So, do I cry during a euthanasia? Yes, sometimes this vet cries. I do not apologise for crying and I tell my clients they do not need to apologise for crying. We love our pets.
These strong feelings that accompany euthanizing a pet come as the result of their roles in our lives and the strong bonds we are capable of developing with animals. In fact, research by Jaroleman indicates that the bond between people and their pets can have a direct impact on physical and mental health.
She said: “In some cases, they may recommend that euthanasia is in the best interests of an animal if their quality of life is low, or if a treatment option may cause them a lot of pain and suffering or carry low chances of success. These are very difficult conversations, which take an emotional toll on all involved.”
Can I feed my pet prior to the euthanasia? Yes. Your pet's final moments should be happy and filled with whatever gives him or her joy- be it a steak dinner or a McDonald's burger. Whatever special treat your pet might like is fine.
Quality of life is the key issue. If your dog is unable to function in a way that assures you that he is still enjoying a good quality of life, then it's time to seriously consider releasing him from his body.