Yes, it's normal for newborns to sleep a lot (14-17+ hours/day in short bursts), and you should let them sleep unless they've gone longer than their usual feeding time (every 2-4 hours), especially in the first weeks to ensure they get enough milk for growth; however, for better night sleep, you might cap daytime naps and encourage a day/night rhythm by keeping days bright and nights dark, while always waking them for feeds in the early days if they sleep past feeding time.
It's okay. It's normal for a newborn to sleep most of the day. Sleep averages for newborns are 16 to 18 hours a day in periods of 2 to 4 hours. Later, over 1 month old, babies start sleeping more at night and less at a daytime. Newborns usually wake up to be fed.
My pediatrician recommends letting babies sleep as much as they want/can without intervening (unless you have to wake them to feed as a newborn)!
During the first month, babies spend about 16 hours a day sleeping. Naps last about 3 to 4 hours and are spaced evenly between feedings. After newborns have been awake for 1 to 2 hours, they most often need to sleep again. As babies get older, nap times get more regular.
How to tell if your baby is sleeping too much.
The hardest week with a newborn is often considered the first six weeks, especially weeks 2-3, due to extreme sleep deprivation, constant feeding demands, learning baby's cues, postpartum recovery, and a peak in inconsolable crying (the "witching hour"), making parents feel overwhelmed as they adjust to a new, exhausting routine. While the first week is tough, the challenges often intensify as the baby becomes more alert but still fussy, with major developmental hurdles like cluster feeding and increased fussiness peaking around 6-8 weeks.
The 5-3-3 rule is a loose guideline for structuring a baby's sleep schedule: 5 hours of wake time before the first nap, 3 hours of wake time before the second nap, and 3 hours before bedtime.
The 2-hour rule for babies means they shouldn't stay in a car seat (or travel system seat) for more than two hours at a time, whether in or out of the car, because the semi-upright position can strain their developing spine and restrict their breathing, increasing the risk of low oxygen levels, especially for newborns and preemies. For long journeys, parents should take breaks every two hours to take the baby out, allow them to lie flat for a while, stretch, and feed, ensuring they get proper head/neck support and circulation.
The 30-60-90 nap rule suggests ideal nap lengths are under 30 minutes for alertness, around 90 minutes for a full sleep cycle, while 30-60 minute naps risk grogginess (sleep inertia) from waking during deep sleep, though some find 30-45 minutes helpful for resetting; the goal is to align your nap with sleep stages, avoiding the disruptive middle ground to get energy without feeling worse.
If your baby is unusually difficult to wake, sleeps much more than usual, feeds poorly, or seems less responsive even while awake, this may be a sign of lethargy and should be checked by a pediatrician right away.
What makes a baby sleepy? Recovering from birth: In the first few days, some babies are sleepy or uninterested in feeding. It's especially true for small babies, after a difficult labour or birth, or if you received drugs for pain relief during labour. Jaundice or an infection may make a baby sleepy.
Most newborns lose weight in the first few days after birth. They usually regain this lost weight within 1 to 2 weeks after birth. Until then, it's important to feed your baby often. This might mean waking your baby for a feeding, especially if it's been more than four hours since the last feeding.
For the first few days, you may need to wake them to feed if they're still sleeping by three hours from the last day feeding and four hours at night. If baby still won't eat, allow him/her to sleep another hour, and try again. When you're in the hospital, call the nurses for help if baby still won't nurse.
In the meantime, three reassuring signs that your newborn baby may be healthy are:
The 3-2-1 sleep rule is a simple wind-down routine: stop eating and drinking alcohol 3 hours before bed, stop working/mentally stimulating activities 2 hours before, and turn off screens (phones, TVs) 1 hour before sleep, helping you transition to rest by reducing stimulants and preparing your mind and body. It's often part of a larger 10-3-2-1-0 rule, which also adds no caffeine 10 hours prior and no hitting snooze (0) in the morning.
On the legitimacy of the 8-minute nap, he says “sleeping with your legs elevated can help improve sleep onset and quality as it allows blood to flow more easily throughout the body. This is the sleep science behind the 8-minute Navy Seal nap, but that's not the only thing that makes this nap potentially effective.”
Lots of babies are just fine on shorter sleeps, so don't waste time worrying about it. I take a baby-led approach that if your baby sleeps in 30-minute spells, wakes-up cheerful and doesn't show signs of tiredness until their next sleep is due, then fix up, move on and enjoy your day together.
There are no set rules about how long to wait before taking a newborn out into the world or when to let people near the baby. Some doctors recommend that parents wait until their baby is a few months old before going to crowded public places (like malls, movie theaters, and airplanes).
Why Does SIDS Peak at 2-4 Months? The widely accepted explanation for the SIDS peak has to do with the timeline of brain development. “Up to 4 months old, the part of the brain that controls breathing and wakefulness is under a lot of development,” Juliet explains.
Breastfed babies feed often, about every 2–3 hours. Bottle-fed babies tend to feed less often, about every 3–4 hours. Newborns who sleep for longer stretches should be awakened to feed. Wake your baby every 3–4 hours to eat until he or she shows good weight gain, which usually happens within the first couple of weeks.
SIDS is less common after 8 months of age, but parents and caregivers should continue to follow safe sleep practices to reduce the risk of SIDS and other sleep-related causes of infant death until baby's first birthday. More than 90% of all SIDS deaths occur before 6 months of age.
Yes, the Navy SEAL sleep trick (an 8-minute power nap with elevated legs) is a real technique for quick rest, popularized by former SEAL Jocko Willink, that helps improve alertness and reduce fatigue, though its effectiveness depends on individual relaxation skills and it's not a substitute for full nighttime sleep. The method involves lying down, elevating your feet above your heart (on a chair or couch), relaxing facial muscles, dropping shoulders, and clearing your mind for about 8-10 minutes to promote relaxation and blood flow, preventing grogginess.
Feeding Baby At Two Weeks Old
Feedings should occur every 2-3 hours and hopefully every 4-5 during the night. Feeding should take about 30 minutes. If bottle feeding, a ballpark amount is 3-4 ounces.