SCORPIO. It's no secret that your number one fear of love comes from the innate fear you have of betrayal. You're naturally distrusting of others and suspicious of everyone, especially of those closest to you.
Scorpio: Fear of abandonment
This fiercely protective sign may have erected a fence around their heart but once they let someone in, they are in for life. The notion of not having this loyalty and dedication reciprocated is what makes them wary of developing intense emotional bonds.
Scorpios are very scared to get intimate with anyone, in particular. They are scared to express themselves in front of anyone, in the fear of getting hurt. Apart from being extremely sensitive, they tend to push people away as Scorpios are afraid of losing their identity in any relationship.
Scorpios in love
Scorpios know what they want, and that also applies to love and relationships. Expect the Scorpio to pursue their lover endlessly and intensely, chasing the one they desire to the ends of the earth. These lovers are perceptive, devoted and loyal, on top of being sexy as all get out.
They hate hearing a no and often pretend they have not heard it. This aspect, unfortunately, makes many a Scorpios obsess with relationships that are toxic. Their pride does not let them graciously back out or let go. Unless, they are the one's breaking a relationship – it's fine but it better not be them hearing a no!
Scorpio's Most Toxic Match: Leo
Leo's trademark arrogance will be too much for Scorpio, leading to almost constant clashes between the two. Given both signs' explosive emotional flair, this is likely to be the couple that gets into fights in public and/or (probably both) bickers constantly while out with friends.
Scorpios may even create conflict to test their lover's devotion, toxic behavior that often backfires. Scorpios must remember that even in serious relationships, people are entitled to their individuality and emotional autonomy. If they're not careful, their iron grip may be their relationship's death knell.
The love language of a Scorpio man is very hard to understand, but no one is as loyal and protective as him. The Scorpio man usually falls for someone who knows how to stand up for themselves. He hates superficiality, but once he trusts you, he never misses any chance to make you happy.
Scorpios fall fast when they're interested in someone, even if they may not let on just how obsessed they are. The person they're dating is likely always at the top of their Instagram searches, and Scorpio may go out of their way to conveniently show up at events where their love interest may be.
Scorpios tend to put their whole heart and soul into the relationship. They are intense and deeply emotional by nature. If they could be with their soulmate forever, they would. Because Scorpios invest so much of themselves into their relationship, they don't take breakups lightly.
11/13Scorpio - Privacy
They like to keep their cards close to their chest, so losing control over their privacy is their biggest insecurity. They like to be a know-it-all and don't take too kindly to surprises.
Scorpios also have a need for control, which can stem from their fear of vulnerability. They have a strong desire to be in control of their emotions and their environment, which can cause them to feel insecure when things are out of their control.
Scorpios find it difficult to trust anyone and are one of the most commitment-phobic people. They fear their partner would cheat on them and hurt their feelings. However, once they commit, they make pretty dedicated and loving partners.
Lavender essential oil can provide much-needed calming to Scorpios on the warpath after they feel they have been wronged. It can relax the body and mind to encourage a more forgiving nature.
Scorpio cry to prove that they are the one victimized. To put it simply, they trick others by crying. They also cry when they are left alone and have no one to baby sit them. Loneliness is something of which scorpions are afraid of.
Despite the face that they show to the world, deep down, Scorpios have incredibly sensitive hearts. As a water sign, they feel all emotions very deeply, and they must guard their hearts with a shield. There are only a few carefully selected people who can break through this shield and see them for who they truly are.
With their characteristic emotional reserve, Geminis can often break a Scorpio's heart. Geminis' reluctance to express their feelings can frustrate Scorpios. Geminis' flighty nature can harm Scorpio's desire for emotional depth and commitment.
The signs that are the most compatible with Scorpio are the water signs, Pisces and Cancer and the Earth signs, Capricorn and Virgo. A Scorpio will feel at home with the water signs, Cancers, Pisces, and other Scorpios. These three signs share the same elemental energy, one that is deep, emotional, and introspective.
It is highly probable that Scorpios will find their soulmate at a tender age, when they are about 17 years old. Still, a child at that age, Scorpios would find it challenging to deal with the massive outpouring of emotions.
It takes a Scorpio a long time to fall in love because they normally fall for people only after building enough trust. However, they have an air of mystery around them and dating a Scorpio might feel like an adventure and they would give the impression that they are in love but in reality it's quite the opposite.
They give their crush signs and signals that are very difficult to interpret, leaving the other person confused. Scorpios hate being vulnerable, so while there is a part of them that is expressive, they quickly shut it down before they make themselves too obvious.
Scorpio's love
The Scorpio is likely to fall for someone thrice. The first time, you will be childish and will give your heart to anyone. However, the second time you will find it a challenge of loving someone and in the final call, you will be matured and cautious.
05/8Scorpio
They are one of the most complex zodiac signs on the wheel. Not only do they not trust anyone but they won't let anyone else figure out their thoughts easily. They will keep their feelings hidden until someone very special walks into their lives, making them believe in love, trust and understanding.
Also, let's not forget that Scorpios take a very long time to fall in love; for them, trust comes first and then follows love. All these factors make it a little difficult for Scorpios to put words to their emotions.
Primary Love Languages: Physical Touch and Acts of Service
Passionate, intense and extremely emotional, Scorpios are the most extreme bunch in the zodiac. Because Scorpios are so good at plotting and hiding how they truly feel, it can be difficult to really get to know them.