Although doggie moms carry their pups by the scruff, it is not recommended to carry dogs in this way. Since we humans don't have the natural instincts on how to correctly carry dogs by their scruff, we can end up easily causing pain or damage.
A young puppy can be picked up by the scruff of it's neck without causing it any pain. It is in fact, how it's mother moved it around at the beginning of it's life. Simply grab one of the puppies that you have your eye on, and pick it up by the loose skin on the back of it's neck with one hand, and hold it up high.
Don't pick up a dog by the scruff of the neck. Don't pick them up by the front legs (or “underarms”) like a baby—it can strain their ligaments.
The best way to pick up your puppy is by placing a hand (or both hands, depending on the pup's size) on his chest, behind his front legs. As you bring the puppy up towards your chest, immediately move one hand back to support his rear and keep you other hand behind his front legs, supporting his chest.
Traditional collars can harm a dog's neck if it pulls hard on the leash or if a pet owner uses the collar to pull the dog around. “You are potentially damaging the dog's neck by jerking it,” Hodges says. “The neck is a very, very sensitive area.”
The instant you feel your puppy's teeth touch you, give a high-pitched yelp. Then immediately walk away from him. Ignore him for 30 to 60 seconds. If your puppy follows you or continues to bite and nip at you, leave the room for 30 to 60 seconds.
It's very common for dogs to experience a neck injury or throat damage from pulling their collars. When dogs pull against their collars, the front of their necks sustains the most amount of trauma.
At first, most pups tolerate this carrying behavior pretty well, but it's not uncommon for puppies to get to a point where being carried is not as comfortable or pleasant as it used to be!
Once a puppy is no longer a puppy, picking them up by their scruff is risky because they are much too heavy to have all that weight placed on their neck. This doesn't mean that you can't grab your dog by the scruff. Done correctly, grabbing the scruff can be used as a means of training.
First, don't ever lift your dog by his front legs or right under his armpits, like he's a doll. This puts far too much weight on the elbow and shoulders and could injure him. Also, don't lift your dog by the scruff of his neck. Watch for signs that your dog is uncomfortable with how he's being carried.
By scruffing your dog improperly, you can cause physical injury, and continuous improper usage of this method can lead to psychological trauma as well. By scruffing your puppy when it misbehaves, you are essentially imitating what its mother would have done. Scruffing should never be too firm or aggressive.
Start handling the puppies.
By about three weeks of age, you can—and should! —begin gently handling the puppies1 for short periods for reasons other than basic health care. Once the puppies have their eyes open, you can try carefully picking them up, holding them for a bit, and placing them back in the box.
Depending on their personality and comfortability with being handled, other dogs will continue to be floppy as adults when picked up. Small breed dogs often have a lot of experience with getting picked up in everyday life, and so often default to being relaxed or floppy when being held.
There is nothing wrong with cuddling and playing with your new puppy, but try to limit picking them up. Continually holding your dog can make them begin to feel as though they are human and can encourage behavior that causes dominance struggles within your home.
Many dogs don't enjoy being held, some love it, many simply tolerate it. It is important to listen to what your dog likes and doesn't like. By forcing pets to tolerate or endure being picked up when they don't like it, we are essentially teaching them to not trust us – and the problem will get worse.
First, act like you're going to pick him up, but give him a treat instead. Second, go to pick him up by putting your hand under his body, but don't actually pick him up. Just give him a treat, remove your hand, and walk away. Next, offer him a treat, then pick him up and keep offering treats until he is on your lap.
When you kiss your dog, you may notice signs that indicate they know that the kiss is a gesture of affection. As puppies, this is not something that dogs would recognize, although they would feel you doing it. However, as they get older they associate the kisses and cuddles with you being happy with them.
Your dog might jump on you, lick your face, and they'll definitely wag their tail. Being excited and happy to see you is one way you can be assured they love and miss you. They seek physical contact. This can come in the form of a quick nuzzle, a cuddle, or the famous lean.
Puppies, like babies, are fragile creatures. You want to make sure you don't pick them up too hastily or handle them roughly. Doing so could leave your pup scared, injured, or both. Pick the puppy up slowly while supporting their chest and back end.
Obvious injuries caused by pulling and jerking are to the trachea and neck. Less obvious are the injuries to nerves and vertebrae which can cause permanent damage as well as lead to other medical issues such as organ damage, paralysis, or neurological issues.
It's recommended that you should remove a dog collar from around their neck at the end of every day. The main reason to do it is for safety in case they catch something on their collar during the night and you're unable to help them.
While a flat collar is best for everyday wear and for displaying ID tags, our experts agree that a harness is the safest option for going on walks and other outdoor activities or situations that might cause your puppy to pull on the leash.