Familiar cats are often quite happy to be booped. Remember that most cats don't like having their noses rubbed; the ears, sides, and backs are usually better options. Always let the cat's response to your attention be your guide.
No, he won't hate you, but he won't trust you quite as much as before. Being flicked on the nose is really painful so he won't forget for a long time. He may also take to shying away from your hand even if all you want to do is pet him.
Never force a nose poke. This communication needs to be initiated by the cat. If you try to force it, the action could be viewed by the cat as aggressive and you could be scratched or bitten.
Cats usually prefer brief interactions so if you do want a kiss, a quick peck is best. This ideal way to show your cat some affection though, is to let them come to you. Cats greet each other with nose-to-nose touching, so try presenting your face to them to see if they come forward for a sniff.
While some cats enjoy being kissed, others will not. Some will feel love, while others will not see kissing as a sign of affection. There are better ways than kissing to show a cat affection that they will understand.
Turns out, it depends on the cat. Some cats are socialized as kittens to be held and kissed, while others haven't had that exposure and might be put off by a kiss as an expression of love. So, some cats like it and some cats don't—but there are ways of detecting the category into which your feline friend falls.
In general, cats prefer to be stroked along their back or scratched under the chin or around the ears. Paws, tails, their underbellies and their whiskers (which are super sensitive) are best avoided.
Chuffing—also called prusten—is the equivalent of a domestic cat's purr. It is a low-intensity sound that a big cat will emit in short, loud bursts. To vocalize a chuff, air is blown through the nostrils while the mouth is closed, producing a breathy snort.
He wants to get close to you
In the wild, cats will groom each other to bond. If you caress her, she may want to return the favor and deepen her connection with you. The cat will cuddle you by touching your face with its paws. He may also lick or bite you to show you his affection and love.
Takeaway. The more we learn how to read a cat's body language and interact with them in the ways they enjoy, the more we can share special moments together. If your cat lets you rub their belly, it means they trust you enough to let you touch one of their most vulnerable areas.
Cats have very sensitive noses.
The good news is, despite their reputations for being antisocial, cats love bonding and they do forgive and forget. So, if you're at a loss as to how you're going to rebuild trust and affection with your cat, don't fret.
An inquisitive tabby poking her nose into that roasted chicken cooling on the countertop may be annoying, but she does not deserve to be treated like a feline Frisbee. Pushing or throwing your cat in frustration can harm her, both physically and in spirit.
Smell Transfer
Cats recognize each other (and us) by scent. Raising the butt is your cat's way of getting their anal glands closer to your nose so you can get a whiff of their pheromones. This is how cats introduce themselves to other cats.
When your cat is snuggling up to you, it's pretty obvious she's displaying her thanks for all that you do. Kisses, in the form of gentle licks or full-on grooming, are that extra special way she shows you thanks. In a cat's world, to groom is to be grateful.
Decoding your cat's language:
Short meow or mew: A standard greeting. "Hello!" Multiple meows or mews: An excited greeting. "Great to see you!"
Companionship
Cats are often thought of as being independent creatures who are happy in their own company. But your cat can get lonely. Interacting with the human they love helps to enrich their lives (and yours). If your cat sleeps with you this indicates that they enjoy your company and want to spend time with you.
Sorry to break it to you, but human meows mean nothing to cats. At most, you can get your cat's attention and they may even appreciate your attempts to communicate by purring or even meowing back. But to most cats, human meows sound like human language.
Cats can vary significantly in their comfort level at being carried. Some cats won't let you hold them at all, others might allow it but glare at you with quiet scorn, while still others might absolutely love it, even seeking out a person's arms or shoulders as their preferred perch.
All in all, even the most aloof and brooding cat will be able to pick up on your warmth and devotion. Whether they choose to admit it or not, they can sense when a person loves them (and hates them). So always make sure you're emitting good, kitty-positive vibes, and your cat will be sure to indulge in the lovefest.