Kissing with your eyes open is unusual, but it's not necessarily bad. While most people kiss with their eyes closed, there are no rules saying that you can't keep your eyes open. As long as you and your partner are both comfortable, then you can kiss each other however you want to.
Opening your eyes while kissing your spouse will not instantly fix your relationship. The purpose of the exercise is to provide an opportunity to actually look at your partner and let them look at you. It's about confronting your insecurities so you can deepen your intimacy. It can be awkward. That's the point.
Most people can't focus on anything as close as a face at kissing distance so closing your eyes saves them from looking at a distracting blur or the strain of trying to focus. Kissing can also make us feel vulnerable or self-conscious and closing your eyes is a way of making yourself more relaxed.
53% of women prefer a clean-shaven man when kissing. 33% of people open their eyes while kissing. 96% of women love to be kissed on the neck. In fact, it's a woman's favorite spot to be kissed, other than the mouth.
People close their eyes while kissing to allow the brain to properly focus on the task in hand, psychologists have said.
Most people kiss with their eyes closed, and it can be offputting to lock lips with someone who has their eyes wide open. A recent study from Royal Holloway, University of London (RHU) presented a possible scientific explanation for our natural preference for closed-eyed kissing.
A kiss on the eye is more of an appreciative kiss. It does not have much to do with love but the guy has real respect for you and holds you in high regard. It may come off as something silly but it is warm and undemanding.
Finally, there's one other reason why we close our eyes in the throes of passion—and it boils down to trust. By closing your eyes, you're letting your partner know that you're able to let go and fully enjoy the moment with them.
You get all giddy.
A rush of dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin hits your system the moment your lips lock. With this positive cocktail and a heart-fluttering kiss, you'll feel like you're on cloud nine! Lips are one of your body's most sensually sensitive areas.
He gives you a gentle kiss
A guy kisses gently the girl he likes a lot. If he kisses you slowly and with tenderness, his main goal is to make you feel comfortable and wanted. While kissing you gently he wants to tell you that you can feel secure with him and that he cares about you.
Dilated Pupils When In Love
According to The Chicago Tribune, research by the University of Chicago reveals that if someone is looking at something or someone they like, their pupils will dilate without them even realising!
1 They really like kissing you. 2 They have strong feelings for you. 3 They want to know if you're into them.
"Eyes wide and alert -- may serve as a conversational punctuator or indicate surprise, fear, wonder or, more likely, enthusiasm and genuine interest. "Eye direction -- offers a clear indicator of mood.
: the act or an instance of fluttering one's eyelashes against another person's skin. "… I've invented a new way of kissing. You do it with your eye-lashes." "I've known that for years. It's called a butterfly kiss." Evelyn Waugh.
If your man looks into your eyes in the heat of the moment or gives you a daring gaze with a lingering smile, he's into you and wants a long-lasting relationship, something more than just a physical connection. He loves it when you take control in the sack.
Winking may mean someone is trying to let you know he/she is interested in you. Intense eye contact, especially with a smile, may mean the person has a crush on you. Pupil size increases means the person likes what he/she sees. Glistening eyes can signify strong attraction and perhaps even love.
Eye contact
“Deep eye contact, or holding your gaze for at least four seconds, may indicate feelings of love.” Bonus points if they smile in your presence too.
The Intimate Gaze
The gaze is across the eyes and below the chin to other parts of the person's body. In close encounters it is the triangular area between the eyes and the chest or breasts and for distant gazing from the eyes to the crotch.
Some guys may feel emotionally attached after kissing because it creates a sense of intimacy and connection. Others may not feel emotionally attached because they view kissing as a casual activity.
His body language tells you he's excited.
Maybe he strokes your face or runs his fingers through your hair while you kiss. You may also look below his waist and notice something's recently “changed” about him. The way his body reacts to your kiss is one of the biggest signs that he's having the time of his life.
What to say after a kiss? Anything you want, or nothing at all! A simple smile is often more than enough. Thanks!
Metabolic boost – kissing burns kilojoules. The more passionate the kiss, the greater the metabolic boost. Healthier mouth – saliva contains substances that fight bacteria, viruses and fungi. Deep kissing increases the flow of saliva, which helps to keep the mouth, teeth and gums healthy.
The neck kiss is exactly what it sounds like — a kiss on the neck. It's considered a kiss of passion, and shows that you're really into the lucky person who receives it. Neck kisses are usually around the nape of the neck or right where the shoulders meet the neck. Honestly, anywhere on the neck feels amazing!