Child maintenance reviews happen regularly (often yearly for assessment purposes) or whenever significant changes occur, like income shifts, changes in care arrangements (number of nights), or a child turning 18, with specific timeframes to object to decisions (usually 28 days). For government-managed child support in Australia, annual reviews are standard, but you can apply for a review anytime if circumstances change, though backdating may have limits.
However, there is no set guidelines for reasonable access for father. Each family is unique and reasonable access for fathers depends on the individual circumstances. Some fathers see their children every day, while others might see them just once a month.
Child support is usually paid for each child until they turn 18 years old.
You might be surprised to learn about fathers getting 50/50 custody in Australia. A 2014 survey revealed that children spent equal time with both parents in just 9% of cases. The statistics tell a different story from what most people believe about equal parenting time.
In Australia, how much a father pays for child support depends on both parents' incomes, the child's age, and the care arrangements, calculated by Services Australia's formula, which considers the Cost of Children Table, parents' adjusted taxable incomes, and percentage of care, with higher incomes and less care generally leading to higher payments, though a minimum rate applies.
You can't get a precise figure without more details, but with an $80k income in Australia, your child support will depend heavily on the other parent's income, the number/ages of children, and your care percentage, but expect an amount roughly in the range of $1,000 - $2,000+ per month, calculated via the Services Australia calculator, using the formula that considers both incomes, the children's costs, and your care time to determine your income share and contribution, with higher care reducing your payment.
There isn't a universal "minimum" child support payment; it depends heavily on your country and specific circumstances, but often involves low-income payers contributing a set minimum (e.g., around $500+ annually in Australia for low earners) if their calculated amount is less, or if they don't have regular care, while private agreements allow parents to set their own amount. The actual minimum is determined by government agencies (like Services Australia) based on income, care arrangements, and child age, with higher care reducing or eliminating the payment.
The biggest mistake in a custody battle is losing sight of the child's best interests by prioritizing parental conflict, anger, or revenge, which courts view very negatively. This often manifests as bad-mouthing the other parent, alienating the child, refusing to cooperate, or involving the child in disputes, all of which signal poor co-parenting and harm the case.
Bad Co-Parenting Hurts Your Custody Case
There's no single answer, as suffering in divorce is highly individual, but research shows women often face greater financial hardship and poverty risk, while men tend to struggle more with emotional adjustment, depression, and loneliness, though both experience significant challenges, especially regarding children, finances, and loss of intimacy. Children also suffer greatly from parental conflict, disrupted routines, and loyalty conflicts, with the outcome depending heavily on co-parenting quality.
No, a father generally cannot simply refuse to pay child support in Australia; it's a legal obligation, and failing to pay leads to serious enforcement actions like wage deductions, tax refund intercepts, asset seizure, or even travel bans by Services Australia. While you can apply for reassessments or payment plans if you genuinely can't pay, refusing payment will result in the government taking action to recover the debt.
Yes, courts can and do award shared care arrangements to fathers, provided it is in the best interests of the child and safe to do so. Even in cases where communication between the parents cannot be easily facilitated, parenting apps or handover books can be used as a safe tool for communication between contact.
Standard Backdating Periods:
Regular cases: Up to 18 months from application date. Cases involving domestic violence: Up to 7 years. Cases where parentage was unknown: From date of parentage confirmation.
The 7-7-7 rule of parenting generally refers to dedicating three daily 7-minute periods of focused, undistracted connection with your child (morning, after school, bedtime) to build strong bonds and make them feel seen and valued. A less common interpretation involves three developmental stages (0-7 years of play, 7-14 years of teaching, 14-21 years of advising), while another offers a stress-relief breathing technique (7-second inhale, hold, exhale).
The "3-3-3 Rule" for kids is a simple mindfulness technique to manage anxiety by grounding them in the present moment: first, name three things they can see; next, identify three sounds they hear; and finally, move three different parts of their body. This engages their senses, shifts focus from worries, and helps them regain control when feeling overwhelmed, like during test anxiety or social situations.
The "9-minute rule" in parenting, or the 9-Minute Theory, suggests that focusing on three specific 3-minute windows each day creates significant connection and security for children: the first three minutes after they wake up, the three minutes after they return from school/daycare, and the last three minutes before sleep, emphasizing distraction-free, quality time to boost well-being and reduce parental guilt.
"70/30 parenting" refers to a child custody arrangement where one parent has the child for about 70% of the time (the primary parent) and the other parent has them for 30% (often weekends and some mid-week time), creating a stable "home base" while allowing the non-primary parent significant, meaningful involvement, but it also requires strong communication and coordination to manage schedules, school events, and disagreements effectively.
“Bad” co-parenting often occurs when lingering feelings of resentment, anger, and betrayal, as well as competition between parties (i.e., wanting to have more time with the child, the need to have your house be the “fun house”) get prioritized over the wellbeing of the child or children.
The concrete number of times you should be in contact with your co-parent will depend on numerous things such as the age of the child, their current state of mind, etc, but you will rarely ever have to communicate more than once a day - emergencies aside, of course.
The most common examples are gifted and inherited assets. Money or property given to one spouse as a gift, or received through an inheritance, is generally considered separate property and cannot be touched in a divorce, as long as it has been kept separate.
The 3 C's of divorce are typically Communication, Compromise, and Cooperation, principles that help divorcing couples, especially those with children, navigate the process more smoothly by focusing on respectful dialogue, finding middle grounds, and working together for the children's well-being. Applying these fosters less conflict and better outcomes, prioritizing the children's welfare over past grievances.
The term “unstable parent” can have various interpretations, but generally, it refers to a parent who may struggle with providing a consistent, safe, and nurturing environment for their child.
Because the formula is based on each parent's adjusted taxable income, a means to lawfully reduce payments is to reduce taxable income by strategies such as:
The garnishment law allows up to 50% of a worker's disposable earnings to be garnished for these purposes if the worker is supporting another spouse or child, or up to 60% if the worker is not.
If you receive child support or spousal support
You don't pay tax on child support and spousal support you receive. This means you don't have to report them in your tax return. If you get other payments from us you may need to report them if they're taxable.