One of the easiest ways to tell whether or not someone likes you is to pay attention to their intent, explains Bumble's sex and relationship expert Shan Boodram. Calling when they say they will, not flaking on plans, and reciprocating the time and energy you put into the connection shows intent.
He finds small ways to compliment you.
Battle says people tend to find small ways to compliment someone they're interested in. So if a guy keeps genuinely complimenting everything from your eyes to your creative endeavors, that could be a sign they're really into you.
One way how to tell if a man is attracted to you but hiding it is he keeps on wanting to see you. He also may ask you to hang out with him, but not like a date. Instead, he may say he's heading your way and ask if you would like to meet.
You Can Feel It
This one is probably a no-brainer; when someone is attracted to you, they want to touch you. Touch releases the bonding hormone oxytocin. So, it is an instinctive way of trying to strengthen your connection. However, not all touches mean the same thing.
Another clear sign he likes you is if he is actively trying to hang out with you, or help you, or find out more about you. There are also indicators like eye contact or compliments, and showing that he's interested in your physical appearance, or who you are as a person.
A guy who has strong feelings for you will want to know everything about you and will make a genuine effort to get to know you better. He'll also use body language that makes him appear more approachable, like eye contact and having an open, relaxed posture.
They will lean toward you and remember all the tiny details about your appearance and about the meeting itself. They will make a humongous effort to keep the conversation going. You will get a gut feeling someone is attracted to you when they do all these things.
Men often express their feelings in a physical nature.
Men often express feelings outwardly through body language such as physical gestures, facial changes, muscle tensing and gritting teeth, instead of expressing those emotions with words.
Just tell him directly.
Sometimes, simple is best. You could just go for it. "Be completely upfront and tell him how you feel about him," recommends relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom. Follow it up by explaining exactly what you like about him and what you want to do about it, she says.
If he likes you, he'll be there for you when you need it. A guy who's really into you won't just be a fair-weather friend. If your guy pal is there for you when you're having a bad day, it's a sign he cares about your well-being and wants to support you.
How would most men react if they found out a girl likes them? I have always been flattered when finding out a girl/woman liked me. Even in those cases where I knew I wouldn't be interested in pursuing that person, it felt good to know that someone thinks enough of me to consider wanting to possibly date me.
Things You Should Know
Look for signs in his body language like eye contact and leaning in towards you while talking. He'll also initiate more physical touch between you. Study his behavior, including the time between text responses and how jealous he seems when other guys are mentioned.
Men Need Love and Affection
In plain language: Men often feel most loved by the women in their lives when their partners hug them, kiss them, smile at them, and explicitly offer gratitude, praise, and words of affection. Men also feel loved and connected through sexuality, often to a greater degree than women do.
He'll Make Extra Eye Contact
Men who are attracted may try to make eye contact with you. Eye-contact seeking is a gesture we make when we want to start a conversation in social or dating situations—we scan around until we make eye contact as a way to say, “I am here, please talk to me”.
When upset, women are more likely to express their feelings directly and to seek the support of friends and family, whereas men might hide their emotions or withdraw. Men often feel that they need to be self-reliant and provide for their loved ones, so it is not appropriate to express their emotions.
Men May Feel Euphoric When Falling In Love
This can translate into an elevated mood overall for a man in love, especially if he's spending a lot of time with the person he's falling for. This happy state may also make people feel more adventurous (regardless of gender).
The eyes most definitely get all the attention, especially when a man first meets a woman. The shape, size and color can easily tempt a man into wanting to know who the woman is behind those eyes. Yes, a smile is one of the things that a guy will first notice about you.