Yes, sometimes we experience hateful feelings in response to the way someone made us feel, disregarded our feelings, or because of something they did which basically caused us a huge amount of emotion. Hate is such a strong emotion and it's easy to hate someone who hurt you.
Prolonged hatred may lead to a desire for revenge or preemptive action against a perceived threat. Some people harbor hatred for others but never act on it. Others become energized by hate and express their feelings through violent acts.
Simultaneously feeling attraction and hate often stems from transferring a feeling one has for one person onto another. Attraction fused with hate may be fueled by fears of rejection, past relationship trauma, social competition, or other insecurities.
The best course for resolving feelings of hate can depend upon the situation. If you feel hatred toward a person or group you don't understand, lead with empathy (the ability to understand and share the feelings of another) and compassion (engaging in an act of kindness). These are antidotes to hate.
In a series of studies, Vivian Zayas and Yuichi Shoda found that people don't just love or hate significant others. They love and hate them—and that's normal. The key to getting through the inevitable hard times, as my own research suggests, is to never stop trying to understand where your partner is coming from.
Briefly describe what happened that felt hurtful or disrespectful. Say, “When I was talking, you (said or did this).” Don't go into a long story about what occurred or try to soften the blow by saying you know they didn't mean to be offensive. One sentence that describes your experience of their behavior is enough.
What is it called when someone purposely hurts you?
Sadists and psychopaths. Someone who gets pleasure from hurting or humiliating others is a sadist. Sadists feel other people's pain more than is normal. And they enjoy it.
Research shows that hatred changes the chemistry in the brain as it stimulates the premotor cortex which is responsible for planning and execution of motion. This prepares us to act aggressively when feeling hateful, either to defend or as an attack .
Especially from the perspectives of young couples in romantic relationships, hate is also a reflection of love. The relationship between love and hate can be explained from different perspectives. Romantic hate may be rooted in romantic jealousy.
Code for I hate you, 182 is used in text messages and other text communication because "I" is one character, "hate" sounds like 8, and "you" sounds like 2.
There's a quote by an unknown author: “A person hates you for one of three reasons: 1) They want to be you 2) They hate themselves 3) They see you as a threat.” People that are genuinely comfortable with themselves don't desire to be anyone else.
While it may feel impossible and certainly takes time to stop loving someone, it's absolutely possible to do just that. In fact, you may find that in no longer loving this person you open yourself up to the possibility of loving others — and even yourself.
