Let her know you're coming from a place of concern and wanting to make a good thing (the relationship aside from kissing/sex) better. Let her know that what is happening is preventing you from enjoying her kisses—and you so want to enjoy her kisses! Also, ask her explicitly what, specifically, she finds pleasurable.
People often cut kisses with you short
Evasive maneuvers such as diverting a kiss to their cheek or neck might also indicate that kissing you isn't much fun. If you notice this pattern, it could be time to talk to your partner about any concerns.
When you kiss someone, your body releases happy hormones. A rush of dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin hits your system the moment your lips lock. With this positive cocktail and a heart-fluttering kiss, you'll feel like you're on cloud nine! Lips are one of your body's most sensually sensitive areas.
The 90/10 rule in kissing is that you lean in 90% of the way…and pause. Let her then lean in 10% of the way and initiate the kiss. So, if your lips are 10 inches apart, you move in 9 inches…and wait. When someone invades your personal space, you will either move away, or move closer.
Good kissers are soft but passionate. They practice good hygiene, know how to move their lips and tongue to make the kiss feel passionate.
Keep your mouth soft and relaxed.
Both a cranked-open jaw and a closed-mouth, hard pucker aren't the most pleasant to smooch. Keep your lips just-apart enough, allowing the kisses to be soft and deep, and keep your mouth relaxed. You want to see where the kiss takes you.
After some serious digging, the answer: yes and no.
While there are things you can do to improve someone's ability and make their kissing a little more your style, there isn't much you can do if they're not willing to change.
People usually consider a kiss sloppy when it leaves saliva on your face, especially outside of your lips. If you or your significant other has to wipe their face or has drool on it, the kiss is probably too sloppy.
When they start mauling your mouth, pull away slowly, count for a beat and give them a single, tender, kiss on the lips. It wouldn't hurt to say “I love being kissed really gently” or “I like going slow”. It might feel awkward, but most bad kissers really are crying out for a little instruction.
In John Gottman's relationship research, he was able to find that six seconds is the length of a kiss that can actually create a connection with your partner. In fact, he recommends you have at least one six-second kiss per day.
A bad kisser is almost always inexperienced, and/or doesn't know how to read their partner's body language. They don't understand how to work their mouth/tongue in rhythm with their partner and often get slobbery and click teeth.
Some believe that kissing with tongue is a natural evolutionary progression that aids in mate choice. Others, citing cultures where kissing with tongue is not only absent but looked down upon, believe making out is a specific learned behavior that's gained popularity due to media consumption and globalization.
One of the most passionate ways to kiss, a French kiss tops the list of kisses! An intimate and erotic move, it is surely to set your partner's mood for some romance. Start by tilting in and locking your partner's lips with yours. Remember to go with the flow, rushing through this divine moment can ruin the feel of it.
In general, water signs like Pisces and Scorpio have a leg up on the competition because they know how to bring the emotional intensity. Fire signs (like Aries and Sagittarius) also make great kissers because they've got a major zest for life—they're super passionate people.
Not everyone is comfortable with teeth during a kiss, so it's generally best to stick to a gentle tug on the lips. Anything more than that might be worth a conversation to touch base on what you both feel comfortable with.
“The three second rule was an old piece of advice about the time it takes to make a good first impression. How it's shifted to meaning that guys can forcibly kiss and touch a woman for three seconds to see if she says no, is a horrible reflection of the understanding people have about consent.
If you follow this set of rules, nothing will go wrong (hopefully) when performing your cheek-kissing act: In general, you kiss thrice when greeting friends and family (also when saying goodbye) You start on the right side, then move to the left cheek and finish with a kiss on the right cheek again.
Most of us are right-kissers. Overall, 64.5 percent of couples turned their heads to the right and 35.5 percent turned their heads to the left.
A long kiss releases dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, feel-good chemicals that will make him smile. A single smile produces endorphins, another hormone that lifts his mood. Endorphins also create a “feedback loop” that will make him smile over and over.