I'd start by trying to give her confidence that she has lovely feet. Instead of fetishising them, learn what she dislikes about them and make her feel good about them instead. Perhaps start by offering her a foot massage at the end of a busy day (without it leading to sex).
Some ladies love foot rubs. Massages are a sensual but nosexual way to bond and release tensions. Some ladies like this kind of pampering and are comfortable with the condition of their feet. Some ladies, however are more reserved.
Let her know that you think she's special by complimenting her when you see her. Remember not to say something that might creep her out. Tell her she has amazing hair, a quirky sense of humor, a fantastic laugh, or the most incredible sense of style you've ever seen.
Touch her gently so you don't startle her. If you two get really comfortable she might even let you slide your hand down a little lower. Once she's comfortable with you putting your hands on her waist, grab her and swing her around. Then, she'll be facing you.
“Women have evolved mechanisms to be choosy about whom they mate with and to fear rape by a stranger. However, touch by friends is both relational – women tend to befriend as a buffer against stress – and pleasurable. Touch gives a nice boost of dopamine, the 'feel-good' hormone.”
When it comes to kissing women, some of their favorite places are obvious, while others are frequently overlooked.
Ears. The ears are an often-neglected area of the body that can be the site of intense pleasure for her and using your mouth is the best way to stimulate them. ...
Did you know that may women can orgasm simply from having a foot rub? According to Reflexology, there are certain “sex points” on the feet that, when rubbed, can trigger an orgasm. This naughty foot massage is a perfect way to get you both in the mood.
Although footsies is not inherently romantic, the nature of it as playful touching is often done between lovers as a sign of affection, and most often without discussion. The term comes from a 1940s humorous diminutive of foot.
The practice of touching the feet of elders was adopted in India during the Vedic period and is called Charan Sparsh (charan means 'feet' and sparsh means 'touch'). According to the Hindu tradition, when you touch the feet of an elder person, you are in turn blessed with knowledge, intellect, strength and fame.
You will know when it is a friendly touch and when the touch lingers on for an extra second. If she touches your arm, neck or your face, she is telling you that she wants to touch you more intimately. She might even touch herself to draw your attention to her body.
Women are attracted to confident men, and the key to alluding to your confidence is how you stand. Keeping your feet shoulder-width apart and locking back your shoulders will indicate that you have both strength and confidence. Next, keep your chin up and leave your arms by your sides.
Seduction is primarily conveyed through nonverbal cues.
A study shows that positive facial expressions, particularly involving the mouth, are interpreted as seductive—such as a sly smile. According to research, touch—such as a light brushing of the hand—is very important to conveying sexual interest.
This is very casual and common among friends. Hugging shows her that you are excited to see her and is a good start to initiating physical contact. If she refrains from hugging you back, she may be uncomfortable or uninterested and you should hold back.
Small touches and gestures can be a good sign that a woman likes you. If she playfully pats your arm or rubs against you while you are sitting down, it could mean she wants to be closer to you. She also might want to hug you or be open to an invitation to be hugged.
Some girls may like shy guys, while others may not, just as some women may prefer outgoing men to those who are more reserved. Moreover, some women may like certain shy men and dislike others, choosing to focus on a person as a whole rather than a small sliver of someone's personality.
