Dogs' ability to interpret humans is based a lot on body language, and they recognize facial expressions just like people do. Dog owners can show some serious love just by making sure their pooch gets a big, genuine smile and a few belly rubs every day.
Your furry friend might not be able to hug you, but they can show affection by doing things like leaning on you, bringing you a toy, or carrying around some of your favorite possessions (or, at least, your most-worn socks). Dogs exhibit other signs of love, too—like wagging tails or a paw held aloft.
Dr. Hare has answered some of the burning canine cognition questions many curious dog lovers have to strengthen the bond between humans and their pups even further. Does my dog know how much I love him? Yes, your dog knows how much you love him!
Considered a “distance decreasing signal,” a puppy tail wag often invites you to come closer and begs for attention. Licking is another sign of puppy love. Slurping your hands and aiming a smooch at your eyes or mouth is a canine declaration that you are in tune with your puppy.
Like humans, dogs are especially impressionable as their brains develop, so puppies up to 6 months old are in their key socialization period. Like their human counterparts, dogs develop favorite people over time based on positive experiences and positive associations with that person.
Early-life bonding
As a result, dogs typically form strong, lifelong bonds with whoever feeds, plays, and generally cares for them most often during this critical time. In cases where the person they bonded with is no longer around, a dog may still show favoritism toward people that are similar to them.
A dog's number one priority at bedtime is comfort and security. So, if they're choosing to sleep in the same space as you, it's a big sign that they trust you. "Sleeping with the owner in the same room helps minimize fear, anxiety and stress," said Christman.
When you kiss your dog, you might notice signs suggesting they recognize a kiss as a sign of affection. However, as puppies, this is not something they would understand. But, as dogs age they may associate kisses and cuddles with their owners being happy with them — as petting and treats often follow.
They want to hug them and smooch them as they do with their toys. According to Animal Behaviorists, 'dogs don't understand human kisses the same way that humans do. ' When kissing a young puppy, you may not notice any signs of recognition at all because they have yet to associate kisses with affection.
Why is my dog putting his paws on me? In addition to a way to say "I love you," your dog might paw at you if it needs something like food or a potty break. Anxious dogs might also paw at you for comfort or to request some space. Other dogs may paw at you to signify they need some activity time.
Do Dogs Like When You Talk to Them? Yes! Research published in Animal Cognition found that both puppies and adult dogs are attentive to the high-pitch voice we use with babies and the more even-toned language used with adults.
If your dog sleeps on your bed, you've probably woken up to find their bum facing you. There are several reasons why this happens, and most of them are pretty benign. These include comfort, ventral contact, trust, protection, eye contact, wanting to be left alone, territory marking, petting, and parasites.
Dogs have a very acute sense of smell and can determine emotions like fear, anger, and disappointment. If you are feeling sad, your dog can sense this and feel subdued by you. Dogs respond to weeping with a submissive demeanor. Dogs are able to sense if you plan something they don't enjoy.
Overall, dogs are complex creatures that think about a wide range of things, including social relationships, their physical environment, daily routine, physical needs, and health and well-being.
Most of the articles claiming that dogs don't enjoy cuddles, mention the body language we see in many pictures of dogs being cuddled. And they're not wrong – while lots of dogs DO enjoy a cuddle, it is not rare to see the subtle signs that a dog is uncomfortable being missed or ignored.
Some psychological data suggests that dogs don't see hugging the way humans do and aren't really on board with it. In fact, they could see it as aggressive or being restrained and may respond negatively.
"Hugging is a form of handling, and handling can lead to fear, anxiety, and stress in some dogs," says Dr. Vanessa Spano, DVM at Behavior Vets. "Similar to people—not every person wants to be hugged, let alone hugged all the time; dogs deserve consent."
Many dogs don't enjoy being held, some love it, many simply tolerate it. It is important to listen to what your dog likes and doesn't like. By forcing pets to tolerate or endure being picked up when they don't like it, we are essentially teaching them to not trust us – and the problem will get worse.
Signs a Dog May Be Feeling 'Sad'
There are many signs that could indicate that a dog is experiencing depression. A depressed dog may stop eating and drinking, become lethargic and withdrawn, or their depression can manifest as anxiety, and the dog may become destructive.
It's a sign of affection, closeness, and connection, and your 'furkid' is saying that it feels safe to be with you. It's a continuation of the bonding process that began when you and your dog first met each other. Your dog is reassured by your presence and it needs constant confirmation that you are there for him.
So, yes, a puppy can definitely think of you as his “mother” — that is, his provider and protector — and develop as strong an emotional bond with you as if you were blood-related. Your puppy will also quickly learn to pick you out among strangers, both by sight and through his powerful sense of smell.