Having a preference is fine, essentially. But believing that pubic hair is inherently 'wrong', 'dirty', or 'gross' isn't. Because it's not – and it's there for a reason. So if your sex life would be better and you'd be happier if your partner had different pubic hair, sure, go ahead and gently ask.
Ask him to shave.
If he's secure enough about your relationship and the way he looks, open up about how you feel when it comes to his facial hair. It's often best to be straightforward and honest, and if he doesn't really have serious feelings about it, this is the way to go.
Shaving, whether it's your legs, armpits, or pubic area, is a personal choice. You certainly don't have to shave before sex if you don't want to. Shaving pubic hair (or not) is a cosmetic preference, and it does not mean you are "cleaner" if you shave. If you do prefer to shave, try not to do it right before sex.
Pubic hair removal is common — approximately 80 percent of women ages 18 to 65 report they remove some or all of their pubic hair.
Pubic hair is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about since it serves multiple purposes. Right from providing a cushion against friction that can cause skin abrasion and injury to protection from bacteria and unwanted pathogens.
It's fine to say to her, “I'd like it if you shaved sometime, and I was wondering if you'd be open to that,” and maybe even suggest shaving her yourself and making it a sexy activity—as long as you understand, it's her choice in the end.
Pubic Hair Trends
According to the researchers, when asked if they removed their pubic hair, 80% of women and 39% of men removed their pubic hair near the time of the survey. Also, 3% of women and 21% of men had never removed their pubic hair.
Some guys trim their pubic hair over the toilet or in the bathtub/shower - but your best bet is to trim over a large towel. You don't want to have the awkward conversation where you explain why there's a clump of little curlies clogging up your drains.
About 67% of women said they do it because they feel more feminine, 63% said they like to feel soft, and 62% said their partner liked it. Women who didn't shave said they opt out because of the side effects, like itching and bumps, or because their partner prefers them not to.
You shouldn't share a razor with someone else due to sanitary concerns. You can get nicked or cut while shaving, and if you use someone else's razor you are putting yourself at risk for infection — and vice versa.
What pubic hair styles do Americans like and dislike? The most-liked style of women's pubic hair is trimmed, with 52% saying they like this style. Men (59%) are more likely than women (45%) to say they like this style.
“Three out of every 10 guys you date would consider breaking up with you because your pubic hair wasn't up to their standards,” or whatever that means to them, says Drucker. “It shows the extent to which men really think their partner should change their pubic hair if they don't like it,” adds Amelia.
Yes. It's perfectly fine to carefully trim your pubic hair with small scissors along your swimsuit or underwear line. Many girls trim their pubic hair, or go to a salon to have a “bikini wax”; others prefer to shave just about every day, and many just leave it alone. Removing pubic hair is a personal preference.
A combination of polls shows that 80 to 90 percent of women prefer some amount of grooming for starters. Only 10 to 20 percent prefer guys with a completely unkempt bush; this means that going wild below the waist is not the default look. It may require less work, but you're not playing the odds.
Pubic hair may extend out to their thighs, and some girls may have a line of hair up to their belly button. Most girls attain their peak height by age 16, but some may continue growing through age 20.
To keep the pubic area smooth and hairless, you'll need to shave regularly, even daily. Consider if this is worth the trouble; it may become tedious after four or five weeks.
Is it safe to share razors? The quick answer is “NO”. Razors can potentially spread both skin infections and blood borne viral infections such as Hepatitis B, C, and HIV. Razors cut more than hair - they can create micro-cuts in skin.
While it is common to go with the grain of the hair in your armpits, most girls prefer to shave their legs and bikini area upward, because this provides a closer shave. Just be careful. Don't rush. It's important to shave slowly and gently.
Ask calmly and politely.
If you sit your parents down for a serious discussion, you can start with something like: “Mom, Dad, I want to talk to you about something. I'm starting to grow hair on my legs, and I'd really like to shave it. Will you give me permission to buy a razor and start shaving?”
Dr. Minkin told us that, although "there is no biological reason to remove pubic hair," shaving down there is a safe option for removal, as long as you're doing it correctly. "The major concern with shaving is cutting oneself — but as long as you don't get cut, there's not much harm," Dr. Minkin said.
Gently press down on the razor, pull the skin so that it's tight and shave in short, steady strokes in the direction of the hair growth. Rinse off the razor after each stroke to keep the blades clean. For a closer shave, reapply shaving gel and carefully shave against the direction of the hair growth.