One of the most obvious signs that you're looking frumpy is if your clothes are too big or too small. Clothes that are too big can make you look shapeless and unkempt, while clothes that are too small can be uncomfortable and unflattering.
However, there are some fashion choices that can make a woman look frumpy and unattractive. The most common factors that contribute to a frumpy look include clothing that is too tight or too loose, unflattering cuts and shapes, outdated styles, fabrics that don't flatter the body shape, and ill-fitting shoes.
Make sure your clothes fit you properly – don't hide under baggy layers of shapeless pieces that haven't washed well. Add some colour – even if it's just a lipstick, nails or a scarf. Update your basics – washed out colours and fabrics never look good, and you DO deserve to wear new clothes.
What other colors can make you look younger? Bright ones. “When choosing colors that will make you feel vibrant, I advise my clients to play with bright shades such as red, purple and pink,” says Rivera. “Small doses of bright color add a visual interest and insert fun to every outfit.” And fun equals youth.
Skirts too Long. Skirts that are too long this is one of those things that really can age you and make you look frumpy, weighed down, and just not fresh. I know that long midi and maxi skirts are popular, however, if you are trying to look younger, I would avoid longer skirts.
As you get older, your skin naturally becomes less elastic and more fragile. Decreased production of natural oils dries your skin and makes it appear more wrinkled. Fat in the deeper layers of your skin diminishes. This causes loose, saggy skin and more-pronounced lines and crevices.
In addition, younger men are attracted to mature women because they can learn from them and gain a valuable new perspective. Older ladies also tend to be emotionally mature, stable, confident, and independent. Attractive older women are less likely to be needy or jealous in a relationship.
Always dress to suit your look and personality, not just your age, choosing accessories to suit your skin tone and styles that make you feel confident and comfortable. Fashion experts agree that certain items such as fleeces, elasticated waistbands, and old-fashioned skirts will age you and look outdated.
No matter your body type, the general idea is to have your dress end at a relatively small part of your leg. For example, at or just below the knee tends to be the most universally flattering skirt length, whereas anything hitting the widest part of your calves can create the illusion of a shorter leg.
Clothes with gray undertones can wash you out and make you seem older, says Natalie Jobity, an image consultant and author of Frumpy to Fabulous. “This is especially true about the colors you wear closest to your face, like those in scarves,” she says.
This is because longer locks tend to cover up wrinkles and age spots on the face, creating a smoother complexion that can give off an impression of youthfulness. Additionally, long hair frames the face in such a way that it makes people look younger than they actually are.
Warm tones do an exceptionally good job at making us look younger. If you're a brunette, add some warmth to your look by asking your stylist for golden highlights. This way you'll be ready for the summer plus ensure that your hair is making you look younger, not older!
According to Korab, "A rich red, such as auburn or copper, will enhance brunettes and redheads. This gives the appearance of younger and more radiant skin by reflecting light around the face with its warm tint. The deep red has a kick of fiery vibrancy no matter if you go subtle or ultra-bright."
