Since INFPs are highly perceptive and tuned into their intuition, when they do feel pangs of jealousy, it's usually not for no reason. They can probably sense when something is off.
As Intuitive Feelers, they're fascinated by human nature and wish to understand you at a deep, emotional level. So, if an INFP really likes you, they'll go out of their way to talk to you and engage in a meaningful conversation. It's their way of telling you that they care and want to know you better.
Usually not, but there are always exceptions. Usually when I talk to a new friend, I do my best to make sure they feel comfortable. Part of my way of showing that I love someone is giving them the freedom and space they need to be themselves. But there are always exceptions.
Because INFPs are naturally sensitive, they may be more easily hurt by blunt criticism than others. INFPs tend to take critical feedback personally and are likely to feel upset or attacked by it.
Weaknesses that are typically associated with the INFP personality type include... Having difficulty accepting disappointment or failure. Taking criticism too personally. Struggling to share about themselves.
#1 – INFPs HATE Rigidity
For the INFP, personal freedom, control, and autonomy is an essential part of happiness. Rules that seem poorly thought-out, structures that constrain their ability to imagine, and judgmental statements can make them feel furious inside.
INFPs are a lot like ISFJs and INFJs when it comes to feeling comfortable before flirting. They like to cyber stalk their love interests, but can be somewhat shy with them in person until communication has opened up a bit. You'll find that INFPs make this open communication flow happen rather quickly.
INFPs may seem like feelers in disguise. They may not exude emotion and enthusiasm all the time, but they care deeply and intensely. They may not open up to most people about how they feel, what they feel, or what impacts them, but they know and that's what matters to them.
INFPs are most compatible with the other Intuitive-Feeling types—ENFJ, ENFP, and INFJ—as well as ESFJs.
INFPs ranked as having low dominance according to the CPI™ tool. These individuals are very independent in nature, and value autonomy and personal freedom. They dislike imposing their will on others and believe that everyone has a right to their own individual ethics and beliefs.
People with INFP preferences aren't known for dating around. Instead, they tend to choose a partner based on mutual trust and shared values. Because they're always looking to the future, they often see the potential for long-term partnership in their relationships.
*ESTPs can either be totally fine, or absolutely batshit insane when it comes to their jealousy and possessiveness. Overall, I would say that a) ExFx types, and b) enneagram 2s, would probably be the most likely combination of types to suffer from jealousy.
As partners, they are most likely hand-holders and snugglers, using physical closeness as a love language. About 83% of them agree that understanding their partner's physical needs is essential for a healthy relationship. They will likely make a very conscientious effort to make sure that those needs are met.
INFPs show a strong preference for quality time as a love language, followed by words of affirmation and physical touch. Though they experience extremely strong emotions internally, INFPs prefer to show their love by spending time with those they care about and engaging in the activities that they enjoy alongside them.
However, if INFPs can't escape the shallow plane quickly, they will lose interest in the relationship (even though they may continue being friendly to that person — we hate being rude).
#1 – They Appear Quiet and Distant
INFPs tend to be on the quiet side, but there's usually a whimsical warmth that shows up anyway. But when they are stressed and overwhelmed, they appear more distant, detached, and stoic. Usually they are absorbed in thoughts, trying to sort out how to handle what's plaguing them.
However, when they're unhealthy, INFPs become disillusioned or stuck in their ways. They may withdraw from the world and become isolated, or they may act out in destructive ways. Their idealism can turn into cynicism, and their values may become inflexible.
There's no more empathetic personality type than the INFP, and their texting habits will reveal this: they will ask various personal and deep questions, give advice when asked to,and readily show emotions through text.
Exploring connections, ideas, possibilities, and solutions is inspiring to INFPs. They love being able to jump from idea to idea to see unusual and random opportunities. The spontaneity of discussion, the lack of boundaries, and the creativity involved in brainstorming is all very stimulating to them!
They are not afraid of commitment. INFPs are known for their idealism and strong values, which means that they hold on to something more than you can imagine. How to make an INFP fall in love: Be clear with your desire to commit; appreciate their expression of love and reciprocate according to their love language.
It's easy to see why. We aren't particularly assertive, and tend to be soft-spoken, so it's easy to get drowned out or ignored. We also think differently than many types, so others might just not 'get' what we're trying to say.
Prefacing an insult or critique by saying “don't take this personally” will only make INFPs feel belittled and irritated. INFPs are more than happy to get constructive criticism, but it needs to be done in a way that isn't patronizing.
The INFP. INFPs are energized by working in accepting, open-minded environments. In turn, they feel drained by environments where there is conflict or hostility. Dealing with a lot of criticism or even just being around it plays a major toll on their psyche and cause them to “shut down” emotionally.