-Overall men prefer wetter kisses with more tongue than do women. -Both sexes preferred more tongue with long-term partners. -Men are more than twice as likely to have sex with a bad kisser than are women.
The use of the tongue during kissing can indicate a desire for deeper intimacy and passion.
French kisses can be more stimulating than kisses without the tongue since the lips, tongue, and other parts of the mouth are powerful erogenous zones that contribute to sexual arousal.
Tongue or French kiss
This is the most popular kiss, and men love it a lot. It involves not only lips but also tongues. Start by sticking your tongue out just a little bit and then use it to softly massage and caress his lips. Your man should take the hint and will start doing the same.
FRENCH KISS
One of the most passionate ways to kiss, a French kiss tops the list of kisses! An intimate and erotic move, it is surely to set your partner's mood for some romance. Start by tilting in and locking your partner's lips with yours.
"Men like sloppier kisses with more open mouth and that suggests to me that they are unconsciously trying to transfer testosterone to trigger the sex drive in women," said Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University in New Jersey. Kissing can certainly open the door to sex, Fisher said.
A long kiss releases dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, feel-good chemicals that will make him smile. A single smile produces endorphins, another hormone that lifts his mood. Endorphins also create a “feedback loop” that will make him smile over and over.
He smiles during or after.
Smiling while smooching might be an indication he's not only happy to be kissing you right now, but that he's been wanting to kiss you for some time, and is overcome with elation and a sense of victory.
For example, if your partner uses too much tongue, pull away, say “This is how I prefer to be kissed” as your first strike, then resume. Practice frequently. The best way to make sure you both get the best out of any kissing venture is to actively practice.
A butterfly kiss is an affectionate gesture made by fluttering the eyelashes against someone's skin or eyelashes.
Move your lips towards him slowly, closing your eyes at the last second. You need to be able to see so that you can aim for his lips, but you don't want to keep your eyes open while you kiss, so close them right before your lips lock. Keep your eyes closed during the whole kiss.
Most people can't focus on anything as close as a face at kissing distance so closing your eyes saves them from looking at a distracting blur or the strain of trying to focus. Kissing can also make us feel vulnerable or self-conscious and closing your eyes is a way of making yourself more relaxed.
Guys like when their partner is confident and know what they want. If you're too afraid to move in for the kiss, ask him to do it. Say something like, “Will you kiss me?” You can also ask him if he'd like a kiss, by saying something like, “Can I kiss you?” or “I'd love to kiss you right now.
But they often work together to create different levels of relationships. Also, these functions vary among people. So while one man may get emotionally attached after kissing, another may not. It is highly subjective, depending on the man, the woman, and the kind of chemistry they have.
A good kisser knows how to get in tune with what the other person is doing and stay in sync to their movements and vibe. So if you feel like you're well-suited to your kissing partner's style, then you're all set.
A kiss transmits smells, tastes, sound and tactile signals that all affect how the individuals perceive each other and, ultimately, whether they will want to kiss again.
In the field of kissing there are no – or very few – objective truths, although “sticking the tongue fast and straight in” is unlikely to be a good idea. But in general one person's pleasurable amount of tongue will be another's too much – or too little – so just work out what style you enjoy.
You don't have to use your tongue through the entire make out session. If you want to just kiss without tongue too, it's totally fine. When you ARE using tongue, your go-to move when Frenching can be a massage between your two tongues. You can also try different things and see what feels most comfortable.
Men in general seem to like wet kisses with more "tongue action," said anthropologist Helen Fisher of Rutgers University. This could be because modern males are instinctually using kisses to pick up traces of estrogen in a woman's saliva and thus gauge her fertility.
In the short-term, men like kisses to be wet, while women do not. Psychologists hypothesize that males "perceive a greater wetness or salivary exchange during kissing as an index of the female's sexual arousal/receptivity, similar to the act of sexual intercourse," wrote Hughes.
First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Don't press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for men and women. On the other hand, some women and men like steamy, sloppy, wet kissing.