Yes, cats absolutely know when you're mad or upset, picking up on your tense body language, raised voice, facial expressions, and even subtle changes in scent, causing them to hide, act anxious, or sometimes seek comfort to re-establish a positive connection. They learn to associate certain actions or vocal tones with negative reactions and adjust their behavior, often trying to "make amends" through snuggles or purring to regain your favor, as they rely on you for essentials.
They do, but eventually forgive you. They are not like dogs, and will have things that they won't accept.
Yes cats can sense sadness, they are even able to sense your frustration and anger, and tries to defuse it with their sweet treats.
Cats may not hold grudges in the way humans do, but they do remember negative experiences. Understanding a cat's short term memory can explain certain behaviors, like avoiding people or places. Proper care can help rebuild trust with a cat after a negative experience, especially when cat abuse is involved.
With cats, hissing works wonders and is much more effective than hollering though it doesn't exactly do much if you're in another room. Or maybe blowing at them. My cats haaaate to be blown at. Henry just looks so offended.
The 3:3:3 Rule: Help Your New Cat Adjust to Their Home The 3:3:3 rule explains some general expectations for the transition process and some tips on how to support your cat through each stage: 3 days for initial acclimatization, 3 weeks for settling in, and by 3 months, they should be comfortable and at ease in their ...
The top "silent killers" in cats are Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD), often going undetected until 75% kidney failure, and Hypertension (High Blood Pressure), which damages organs without obvious signs until blindness or seizures occur, notes Muirfield Animal Hospital, Pet Health Network, www.springwoodvets.com.au, Close Veterinary Clinic, Killarney Animal Hospital, Physicians Mutual Insurance, Sykesville Veterinary Clinic, Mona Vale Veterinary Hospital, Nimbus Pet Hospital, Hill's Pet Nutrition, Covetrus North America, ASPCA Pet Insurance and PetCareRx. Other serious conditions include Hyperthyroidism, Heart Disease (like HCM), and Fatty Liver Disease (Hepatic Lipidosis).
While it's true cats' short term memory can hold onto events for up to 16 hours, and remember traumatic associations for a lifetime, cats are not "holding a grudge" out of spite, but rather protecting themselves from negative experiences.
The Most Common Fears and Anxieties in Cats
Sometimes, cats want to feel safe. At others, they want to protect you. It's true: sometimes cats want to give us protection by sleeping or resting next to us. They are very sensitive animals!
After doing something naughty, cats might try to alter your response by rubbing against you, purring, bunting with their head, grooming you, or kneading you with their paws. They might not say sorry in a traditional or conventional way, but they sure do know how to change our mood.
Yes. Because cats are so keenly aware of our emotions and sensitive to changes in their surroundings, it is possible to hurt your cat's feelings, so to speak. Common ways we might make our cats feel anxious, afraid, or depressed include: Loud noises or raised voices.
To say "I love you" in cat language, use slow blinks, offer gentle head/cheek rubs (scent glands), let them initiate contact, provide interactive play, and simply share calm presence, mimicking their natural affection signals like grooming and trust-building.
Offer Affection and Praise
You can say the words, “I'm sorry,” but a more effective strategy when apologizing to cats is to offer them lots of love. Scratch them in their favorite spot and tell them how wonderful they are. You can also try speaking their language by giving them a nice slow blink.
A cat chooses you through affectionate behaviors like slow blinking (cat kisses), head bunting (marking you with their scent), kneading ("making biscuits"), grooming you (allogrooming), bringing "gifts," following you, sleeping near you, and exposing their belly, all signs of deep trust and family inclusion. These actions show they feel safe, see you as family, and want to bond, indicating you're their favorite person.
Loud sounds: a cat's worst enemy
They can detect sounds we don't even perceive and react instinctively with fear to unexpected loud noises, such as: 🔹 Fireworks and thunderstorms: Sudden explosions can cause extreme panic.
Cats hate strong, pungent, or bitter smells, with citrus (lemon, orange), vinegar, and harsh cleaning chemicals (ammonia, bleach) topping the list, along with certain herbs (lavender, eucalyptus, rosemary) and spices (cinnamon, pepper) that can irritate their sensitive noses, with some being toxic if ingested. Strong odors like spoiled food, other animals' scents, or menthol are also highly disliked.
Mirrors. Do mirrors scare cats? Well, many cats ignore them completely, while others have a more complicated, fight-or-flight reaction. Like most animals, cats don't recognise themselves in a mirror.
Cats get most annoyed by loud, sudden noises (vacuums, thunder), strong smells (citrus, vinegar), changes in routine, dirty litter boxes, and unwanted handling like being picked up or stared at, as these disrupt their sense of security and sensory balance, triggering their sensitive hearing and instincts for control and safety. Unexpected movements, unfamiliar scents, and being forced into costumes also cause significant stress and annoyance for felines.
Scientists believe that one-off bad events fade away within 16 hours from a cat's memory. So if you accidentally step on a cat's tail and apologise the cat won't hold a grudge against you. However, cats remember the abuse and repeated mistreatment for the rest of their lives because cats also have associative memories.
Cats prioritize remembering what's important.
According to a widely cited study involving finding food, a cat's short-term memory can last for about 16 hours (when it's something that matters to them).
Cat behavior red flags signal potential medical or emotional issues, including sudden changes in eating/drinking, litter box problems, excessive vocalization, increased hiding, aggression, lethargy, or changes in grooming (like overgrooming or stopping). Because cats hide illness well, any significant deviation from their normal routine, such as increased thirst, appetite changes, or unusual hiding, warrants an urgent vet visit to rule out serious underlying conditions like kidney disease, hyperthyroidism, diabetes, or pain.
Although videos which seemingly show cats speaking in human language are frequently shared on the internet, differences in cats' vocal tract prevent them from vocalising human language exactly. Instead, animal behaviour experts explain they are modifying the "meow" vocalisation to mimic certain human words.
Gabapentin. Gabapentin is a medication that can be used for several purposes, including seizure control, anxiety relief, sedation, and pain management. It's a common cat sedative for grooming, travel, vet visits, and other short-term events.